Jenna DeWitt (she/her) is an aromantic asexual Methodist. She lives in sunny Southern California and spends her time advocating for queer belonging in the church.

In this episode, Jenna and I talk about the value of both intergenerational and digital relationships, the challenges of not having a community of people like you, why the idolatry of romance and marriage is harmful for everyone, what church family could look like, and values-based boundary-setting.

You can find Jenna on Twitter @Jenna_DeWitt and at her blog, Invisible Cake Society:

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Shoutouts: Holly Stallcup, Rise-; Matt Nightingale, The Journey Center-; Brene Brown, Braving the Wilderness (book)