Singles, Let’s Celebrate Our Milestones

Singles, Let’s Celebrate Our Milestones

On a Friday, I sat at my computer, doing my last checks. Email, website updates, weekly to-dos. Was there anything I was forgetting? It was 5:15. Now that it is getting darker earlier, I try to wrap up in time for an evening walk beginning at 5:30. I opened my website...
5 Tips for Singles Who Want to Enjoy Wedding Season

5 Tips for Singles Who Want to Enjoy Wedding Season

It’s wedding season! You know what that means. Time to feel an uncomfortable mix of weird emotions!!  When you’re single and weddings abound, it can be a bit of a mixed bag, emotionally speaking. On the one hand, you’re happy for your friends who are getting married....
Who Is Doing the Background Work?

Who Is Doing the Background Work?

This past September on Instagram, Devi Abraham asked me to share some thoughts on how married people can support singles. Devi co-hosts a podcast called Where Do We Go From Here, on which they talk about purity culture, its effects on Christians, and how to move...
Who We Picture Determines What We Talk About

Who We Picture Determines What We Talk About

Around these parts, we talk about a lot of things pertaining to people who are single and also Christian. We talk about relational well-being, mental health, and calling. We also talk about the reality of being single in a culture low to high key obsessed with...
When You Can’t Defer Hard Things

When You Can’t Defer Hard Things

Have you ever been annoyed that, as someone who is single, there are some hard things you can’t defer? That’s probably true for everyone in some way, but for us singles, there are some decisions we have to make and hard conversations we have to have because no one...