Who Is Doing the Background Work?

Who Is Doing the Background Work?

This past September on Instagram, Devi Abraham asked me to share some thoughts on how married people can support singles. Devi co-hosts a podcast called Where Do We Go From Here, on which they talk about purity culture, its effects on Christians, and how to move...
How To Let Go of a Grudge

How To Let Go of a Grudge

I wish I were better at forgiveness. I feel like, as a Christian, I should be. Every week at church, we pray the Lord’s Prayer, which includes the line, “forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors.” I am now technically a card-carrying Presbyterian, and so that’s...
Who We Picture Determines What We Talk About

Who We Picture Determines What We Talk About

Around these parts, we talk about a lot of things pertaining to people who are single and also Christian. We talk about relational well-being, mental health, and calling. We also talk about the reality of being single in a culture low to high key obsessed with...
When You Can’t Defer Hard Things

When You Can’t Defer Hard Things

Have you ever been annoyed that, as someone who is single, there are some hard things you can’t defer? That’s probably true for everyone in some way, but for us singles, there are some decisions we have to make and hard conversations we have to have because no one...
To Be a Companion, Not a Cure

To Be a Companion, Not a Cure

Have you ever read something that gave you words for something you didn’t know you needed to say?  Last Thursday, I sat at my desk with my morning smoothie and cold brew coffee with a splash of oat milk in a Mason jar. Basic? You betcha. I opened my journal,...