Unsuitable with MaryB. Safrit

The podcast where I interview single Christians about their lives and faith.

Have you ever felt unsuitable? It’s that feeling you get when you walk into a room and wonder, Wait… do I fit here? I’ve been derping around the church my whole life, and since “coming of age,” I’ve felt it more and more as I’ve remained single. I’m not sad about being single, though I experience loneliness like any other human. I love being able to pursue my creative work wherever it might take me. 

Upon moving to the city, I started having conversations with people like me. I started hearing my own stories and struggles in theirs. Though we were different in many ways, those stories helped me see that I’m not alone.

And so I turned those conversations into a podcast. Thinking about how life-giving it was to hear the stories of people whose lives were empty and full in similar ways to mine, I wanted to share that with others. I wanted to create something for us and by us. 

To rewrite the inaccurate stories we tell ourselves—the ones that say we’re unsuitable—is to first hear that someone else has already done it. That it can be done. And then the story becomes, I can do it, too

Welcome, fellow single Christian. This was made for you. Pull up a chair and join the conversation. 

Want to Get Bonus Content and Be Part of an Awesome Community?


If you’re single and you’ve been in the church for more than approximately five minutes, you’ve probably noticed it’s low to high-key obsessed with marriage. This can make singles feel like outsiders in the community where we should feel most at home.

That’s why we’ve started a Patreon community.

When you join our Patreon community, you get access to some awesome bonuses like ad-free, full interviews, bonus episodes, and a live monthly Q&A call. In this community, your presence and your voice are valued.

All you have to do is head to patreon.com/unsuitable, choose which tier is best for you, and sign up!

It’s exhausting to feel like you’re carving a path for yourself on your own. We’re here to walk with you–as you are, where you are.

Tiers start at just $5/month. Head to patreon.com/unsuitable. I can’t wait to see you there!